Alexandramhunt - I watched Tell Them You Love Me and while I fully believe that Anna Stubblefield preyed upon Derrick Johnson and that he couldn t consent to sexual intercourse I do believe it raised an important discussion surrounding disability and one s right to pleasure Sexuality is a part of the human experience that is separate from one s physical amp intellectual abilities Legal amp marriage constructs have projected criteria of age amp relational status onto one s ability to engage in pleasure but those constructs can remove us from our humanity Do disabled people of legal age not have the right to masturbate Is there not the right to tools that can assist in the experience of pleasure Consent must be present for all sexual relations but is it not also nonconsensual to put someone on meds to stifle their sexual urges
