Roseiquartzofficial - Good Morning lovely subscribers Let s talk sex toys and communication within sexual dynamics Sex toys in general have seen a significant rise in social acceptability across the board and of course I own several of my own to use on just myself or others The one of above is a most recent find and personal favorite I m not kidding when I say I almost put my back out using it This version of a vibrator uses a combination of both vibration and suction for clitoral nipple stimulation It does connect to Bluetooth for long-distance play and can also be an effective tool for sensory play and orgasm t0rture There are so many benefits being correlated with the use of sex toys such as physical health mental health and increasing emotional interconnectedness with an intimate partner Not only are toys useful for pleasure but we re also seeing them being used effectively for addressing issues related to painful muscular conditions Using a slim vibrator can help to stretch the tissues of the vagina to enable penetration without pain and the vibrations increase circulation flow to the walls of the vagina promoting healing stimulating nerves and improving lubrication - https patient info news-and-features sex-toys-health-benefits-for-women-men The use of toys also had a surprisingly positive benefit for improvement in sleep and other menopausal related symptoms However there are still some some cognitive biases surrounding the use of sex toys going around that you may encounter from a prospective play partner The idea that a person is broken or is too much work to engage in sexually with because they may require the use of a toy in order to receive pleasure from a sexual experience is one of the most prevalent although it is unsubstantiated and can cause that person to miss out on a very gratifying and satisfying sexual encounter dynamic with someone According to Katherine Schreiber s MFA article How Sex Toys Impact Relationships In the context of sex toys positive communication means ideally that partners who feel threatened can open up about their concerns feel heard and validated and receive reassurance from their partners that a desire to use a sex toy is in no way a comment on their virility desirability or sexual ability Likewise the partner who desires to use a sex toy should again ideally be able to communicate that desire without being judged shamed or otherwise pulled away from Not surprisingly Reece and his colleague Debra Herbenick Ph D surmise in a 2010 paper on the use of vibrators within relationships it may be that being able to communicate openly and feel that one s sexual interests and pleasures are accepted by one s partner enhances satisfaction If you have questions regarding what toys may be most useful for you you can obtain a consultation to talk about the types of toys how they are used and what may best suit your body type or kinky interests from resources such as Pureromance com katierutledge Let me know in the comments or DM what are your favorite toys or what toy have you been wanting to try out Read more
