Asianvixen4u - On Valentine s Day I made a poll asking you to play 2 Truths and 1 Lie One of the options was that I used to be fat That one was true This picture was taken approximately 4 years ago I had a 40 inch waist on the left and the right is a recent picture after I got in shape My waist is 28 inches on the right I lost 12 inches around my waist People are surprised to hear that I was unpopular in high school and used to be an incel It s true I used to get rejected by boys CONSTANTLY I couldn t find a boy to date me in HS because dating me was considered to be social suicide at my cliquey school I will tell stories of my incel days on another day in a vlog in the future I plan on telling the story of how I came to lose my virginity I was not always considered to be as attractive and desirable as I am today I also used to have horrible cystic acne when I was younger and on top of that I was socially awkward I used to have such bad social anxiety that I would get panic attacks just talking to people I knew I had to make a change So in my late 20s I MADE myself take a sales job so that I could learn social skills and learn to become more extroverted And now I have blossomed into the charming lady I am today I am truly like the tale of the Ugly Duckling Sometimes I see comments criticizing my husband for being fat But when we met and started dating I too was a little fat especially in the tummy But he managed to love me just the same We have both lost a significant amount of weight since the beginning of our relationship If you compare his stomach with my earlier videos you can see that he s lost quite a bit of weight as well And things are only looking up Who knows where we will be a year from now